In high school, I was the quiet achiever. I got good grades, stayed out of trouble and spent most of my time reading or joining another club. I wasn’t unpopular, but I wasn’t exactly the life of the party either. I often admired people who found their future bridesmaids and best friends, and I always wondered when I would find mine.
That wondering followed me into college. Watching my older sister thrive in her sorority at the same school planted the seed in my mind, along with a dose of anxiety. Fear of the unknown, but optimism about what could come. Seeing her flourish made me wonder if I could find that same kind of growth and belonging. Her experience gave me the courage to consider recruitment seriously, even though I wasn’t sure I’d fit in.
Recruitment was an experience filled with emotion I never expected. I remember during Preference Round, our Pi Chis (recruitment counselors) said, “Girls, it’s totally OK to cry during this round. It’s so emotional.” I thought to myself, what could be so emotional that I’d cry with girls I just met? I was wrong. Not only was I full of tears, but I also realized I had found my home in Chi Omega.
Joining my sorority was transformative. I learned how to speak up, how to lead and how to lean on others without feeling weak. I took a chance and ran for the public relations position on our Panhellenic Council — and was elected. I was given the opportunity to make my mark. More than anything, sorority life gave me a sense of belonging. It taught me that vulnerability is a strength, that loyalty is earned through action and that true friendship is built on showing up, again and again, regardless of the pledge class or status. My sorority sisters have celebrated my wins and held me through my losses.
Chi Omega has given me career-ready tools, alumni who genuinely want us to succeed and a sisterhood I can count on. From supporting our philanthropy, the Make-A-Wish Foundation, to meeting my little, I’ve been given the college experience I always hoped for.
As a person, I’m still growing. I’m empathetic, ambitious and a little bit goofy. I care deeply about people and believe in lifting others up. My sorority didn’t change who I am, it amplified it. It gave me the tools, the support and the confidence to become the best version of myself while creating bonds with girls I never would have known if I hadn’t taken a chance.
Looking back, I’m proud of my journey and where I am today.
