WRITTEN BY VICTORIA SEDGH, MEMBER OF ALPHA EPSILON PHI
When deciding to go through sorority recruitment, a main priority is usually finding a place where you can feel a sense of belonging. While that’s certainly important, there’s something even more vital to consider- finding a sorority that aligns with your personal values. Greek life is a commitment that can shape your college experiences, future friendships, networks and career opportunities. Choosing a sorority that reflects who you truly are makes all the difference in finding a fulfilling experience.
The first thing you will discover through recruitment is that every sorority is unique. Each organization has its own mission, culture and priorities, which shape everything from the events they host to the way they approach academics and community service. Some sororities may prioritize leadership and academic success, while others focus heavily on philanthropy and community engagement. Some chapters are highly involved in external campus social life, while others might offer a more internal tight-knit environment. By aligning your values with a sorority that feels authentic to you, you can be sure to have a more meaningful experience.
When your values align with your sorority’s, you’ll feel a natural connection with your sisters. Joining a sorority isn’t just about wearing the letters and making new friends—it’s about joining a community of women who inspire you to be your best self. For example, if you’re passionate about giving back, finding a sorority that prioritizes philanthropy will feel energizing and motivating rather than like a chore. If academic excellence is important to you, a chapter that encourages good study habits and offers support systems can provide both inspiration and accountability. Shared values can create a foundation for genuine lifelong friendships and a feeling that you truly belong.
Being part of a sorority that reflects your values has a lasting impact on your growth. College is a time when you’re developing not just academically but also emotionally and inter-personally. The right sisterhood can support you in growing into the person you want to become. You’ll be surrounded by women who encourage you, who help you reach your goals, who will celebrate your successes and support you in tough times. On the flip side, joining a sorority with values that don’t resonate with yours can lead to frustration or even a feeling of disconnect, making it harder to thrive.
It’s also important to consider the potential for lifelong connections. Sorority life doesn’t end at graduation; the values of the chapter will continue to shape its alumnae network, which means that aligning with a sorority’s principles can have a long-term impact on your life after college. A sorority rooted in values that speak to you will feel like a support system beyond just your college years, providing sisters who become lifelong best friends, networking opportunities and mentorship.
Sorority recruitment is about more than just finding a group of friends. It’s about finding a place where you feel at home and can grow alongside women who share your values. Take the time to reflect on your own values—whether that’s leadership, compassion, service or academics—and ask thoughtful questions during recruitment to find out what each chapter truly stands for. Aligning your personal values with a sorority is the key to making your sorority experience a meaningful and lasting part of your life!
